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10 Universal Truths About Men
 Most women have a really tough time understanding men. Given that men and women have many physiological differences that is hardly surprising.

Having said that, wouldn't it be great if you could understand your man better? To help you do just that, here are some truths about men that apply to all adult men regardless of which part of the planet they live in.

10 Universal Truths About Men


  1. Saying 'I Love You' doesn't come easy: Men just don't say these three little words as often as women do. If your man has told you that he loves you, don't expect him to keep saying it again and again. As far as they are concerned, they told you once - why should they have to 'remind' you all the time?
  2. Sex rules: Please know once and for all, men think often about sex. So no surprises there!
  3. They do look at other women: Unless your man is blind, gay, or dead, he will look at other women! And if you're fighting or if you're upset with him, that is when he notices other women all the more. 
  4. Men love long hair: Ok, so your boyfriend may say that you look really cute in your new bob cut and that he likes it a lot, but men prefer long hair over short hair and that's the absolute truth! They're sorry they can't help it and can't even explain why, but they just do.
  5. They don't like jokes about their hair loss: Whether your man tells you or not, he definitely does not like being made fun of regarding his receding hairline. You may find his bald spot funny, but he sure doesn't! Just look at it this way - would you like your man to joke about your weight? Yes, that's exactly how he feels; so lay off the baldy jokes!
  6. They want to please their women: Considering the way most men behave at all times, it may be difficult to believe that they want to do things that please their women. But that is true. In fact, a man simply cannot resist a happy woman. Seeing their woman happy makes men want to do practically anything to keep them that way.
  7. Men are extremely tone sensitive: What I mean by tone sensitive is that men react more to the tone of your words than your actual words. So essentially, WHAT you say is not as important as HOW you're saying it. Even if you're saying something that he won't particularly like, if you're saying it in a calm and peaceful manner he won't react quite as badly as if you were to say the same thing by shouting or in a patronising tone. 
  8. They need you to acknowledge their compliments: Although they don't always show it, men are very sensitive. When they give you a compliment, they don't want you to ignore it or downplay it. Yes, you may be doing so in all humility, but your man will feel that his appreciation is unappreciated and that's just the reason he's looking for to stop complimenting you ever! 
  9. Men are forgetful: It is practically impossible for men to remember the finer details of your relationship such as the day you first met, the first time you made out, what colour 0 Universal Truths About Mendress you were wearing on your first date and stuff like that. But just because he does not remember these things does not automatically mean that he does not love you. He does, but that is how men are!
  10. They can NEVER get over a cheating partner: Cheating and lying in a relationship is something that is difficult to get over. However, some women can still find it in their hearts to forgive a cheating husband and move on with their lives. However slim the possibility, it is a possibility nevertheless. But, if the woman cheats on her husband, believe it when I say that the man will never be able to get over it. He may think he can and even say as much, but he will never forget, nor forgive.

Kavita Harlalka
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